Being sexy with character

if we are talking about "SEXY" i guess you are try to imagine sexy body. but the word sexy is really relative thing for me. even though previously i have the same perspective with you but it was no longer in my mind. according to oxford dictionary SEXY is

                                                     sexy

                                       adjective Referring to, having or characterized by sex appeal.

But now, on my mind, i don't want to talk about that, i would like to write the other perspective about word "SEXY". in my brain's dictionary, sexy is character that makes you look sexy without put off your clothes. sexy is character that makes you look gentleman, and i thought all the people will feel the atmosphere of your character. as far as i concerned, there are three kinds of situation that will show your sexy character which  really appealing.

THE FIRST : have you ever seen person that stay calm when another one was panic in such a panic situation? if you have ever seen one of them, you will understand why i classified him/her as the sexy person. not many of people can remain their brain and gesture stay calm in such condition, not only look calm but also  make an effective reaction or solution of the condition. when someone can control their brain and gesture stay calm, it does mean he/she has a good personality because they are not excessive/pleonastic to give reaction in a negative condition, they have control of their mind and expression where it will lead them to make a good decision in overcome the shakiness.

THE SECOND: have you ever known a person that can forgive someone when they had hurted ? if you have ever met with them, you will know what "a large- hearted or large minded" he/she is. most of the people cannot forget what the other people have done to them, and maybe a few of them dont want to give their forgiveness precisely try to give retaliation. you have to underline that character because it is not easy and not all the people can do that.

THE THIRD : Have you ever listened or seen the person who has done a good thing ( charity, helpfulness etc) but they were try to hide their kindness ? they dont want another one know about that, for him/her. his/her kindness is only need to know by himself and ALLAH, stay low profile and stop to imaging. those characteristics proven that he/she do something because of sincerity, neither imaging nor RIYA. 

those characteristics show us how sexy you are in some conditions. these three characteristics is really difficult to apply but not for the others, because it has become their habit in live this life.

THE Exodus: GOD and KING

               FILM is one of the amusement that really amusing, it same also book can give inspiration and really inspire. But not at all, i underlined the word, because sometimes the film is only give amusement and no inspiration,  or even neither amusement nor inspiration that i called junk-film, furthermore the worst film if there is no amusement, there is no inspiration but there is deviation on that film, it really make unsatisfied, moreover the film touch our beliefs. so this is my opinion about THE Exodus : God and King.

               This film adapted from the prophet Musa life, the story is entertain enough because it try to describe everything rationally, yeah. it is the characteristic of west film i though. this film prone to tell us about musa as a person who wants absolve his people from Ramses (Firaun), there is enslavement, suppression, and severity in Egypt. but this film is not explore enough about Musa as a messenger to Firaun that is really different to what i know from the book or Qoran, and the more annoying story in the end when firaun still alive after sink in the tremendous water attack its looked like tsunami. yahhh that is i called deviation. this film is only want to entertain people but ignore the historical value of history.

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DAMN,,, WE LOVE INDONESIA..

Our life is surrounded by the symbol. symbol has a nature that i called  "mysterious". There are many symbols around us that we have to solve.the symbol wait everyone reads it, i don't know you have ever seen symbol in your life or not, or even maybe you have solved the symbol. because sometimes you played with the symbol subconsciously. but today i don't want to write deeply about symbol , you know it is confusing thing, and only the wise person can describe what it is. now i just want to evoke your great brain to think a little thing about our lovely country " yeah you are right INDONESIA". sometimes i always make a dialogue with my self or make a musing about our country.
        Did you know our country is  powerful, rich, and incredible country ?, forget it. it such a rhetorical question. okay we are the third in the large country in the world. approximately, Indonesia has more than 240.000.000 inhabitant in more than thousand island, you must be said in your mind, that's true. i ll say that Darman. We have all the natural resources in the world, we have the largest gold mine in the world (freeport in Papua), we have the widest ocean, we have the most fertile soil, we have the best quality of fruit, as like as the singer sing we have all the thing in the world but our lovely country still classified in developed country. how can it be ? it was a big question for us. if you say, it because we don't have  any the best human resource to manage our country. you are totally wrong about that MAN... did you know how many professors in Indonesia, how many experienced and professional engineers that we have ? we have a large amount of that. so ? what the problem? ask yourself again.
          Now lets imagine, we have a large land and people. but when we are talking about the technology we are too left behind, one of you who read my writing shout to me an said "hay MAN we are the nation which excellent using technology, yeah that is right, but you have to underline the word using that is mean we are the user, user only, IT does mean we are the consumer of technology we are not the mastermind of technology, i can say we are the victim of technology, we are the largest consumer. we only the big market for another country, we never be a merchant, that is why we never be an advance country in the world, lets imagine again, we have the widest ocean, but i am not sure all the people in Indonesia can eat fresh fish with the cheap price everyday, we have widest pasture and rice field but why we still imported the beef from Australia and rice from Thailand ? it such a big lie, it is nothing for us. and did you know ? gold mine "FREEPORT" is not ours. we have the land but it doesn't mean all the resources is ours too. what a poor rich country.
          We have discussed the problem, we have identified it. now lets thing about the cause of it.do you still on your reason ? it is happen because we are lack of professional human resource? i have said you are wrong  fella, as far as i am concerned it all happen because we are too much schooling our mind and never educate our heart, we have an excellent IQ but we are imbalanced in ESQ. And let see, who are the corruptors that do corruption, the bribers who do bribery, or people who do the nepotism, they are the people that i though have an excellent IQ but have imbalance on ESQ. or even don't say they are dont have any religion, NO, most of them is Muslim,we are the large country with around 98% of its inhabitant are Islam which has the right precept. what's wrong with ISLAM ? whatever the adherents have done, never judge the precept of Islam, ISLAM is a victim of fallacy of thinking. terrorist, polygamy, deviate etc.  most people generalize ISLAM from its follower, whereas ISLAM has a good precept has a deep meaning, many of us interpret the Qoran in way of our thinking. we are not in Rasulullah era, that's why many deviation in our life. Rasulullah physically is not exist anymore, but he has left the Qoran for us, for his follower. as long as we grip and put the Qoran in our heart, i do believe we can change all.
          I really astonished to rasulullah as a big leader, the leader of the leader in the world, it is not a big surprise if Michel H hart whose research and book inserted  and published MUHAMMAD as the most influencing person or tower of strength, i astonished of his ability to change the world, bring us from the darkness to the lightness. it is not easy MAN....

Agent of change & agent of inspiration we called it "BOOK"

          There are many things in the world that can imply great value of living, people, film, book, phenomenon and etc are life lesson that could make our life more meaningfully, grasp the meaning and value can make us to be wiser to live this life. this time i have read an amazing book which not only imply a great value of life but also help me to acquire new vocabulary because it written in English where  contains tremendously new and useful vocabulary, at least i can take two predominance of this method to acquire new  English vocabulary and try to find the point of an author story. You know ??  this time to advance the vocabulary, we need it to speak, to write,to listen and exactly comprehend the point of the book itself. okay you must be curious about the book.

         The book with title "THE ALCHEMIST written by PAULO COELHO has given enlightenment to me, the book showed about the persistence and great willingness of the boy named santiago who is a sheepherd that try to make his dream come true. everyone in the world exactly has a dream in their life that they want to achieve. in this book the author try to tell us about dream, "when you want something all the entire the world will conspire in helping you to achieve it" that is the point that the author want to deliver to the reader, this book really amusing and evoke our spirit to reach our dream. the book telling us that "to reach a dream it is not easy there must be many challenges that obstacle your path to reach it, but do not worry there is a magic sentences "beginner luck and "when you want something all the entire the world will conspire in helping you to achieve it". all the things in the world have their destiny, our duty is to find our the best destiny, as far as we have a willingness to change our life to be better it will be happen, we only have to try to know the language of the world, the book call it " good omen" if you get the good omen, you have to follow wherever it leads you arrive. good and bad omen always exist around us, we only have to try to feel it decide you will follow it or not.

            

“DEATH ROMANTICISM”

Pukul 1:22, 6 ramadhan 2014, duduk terpaku didepan  laptop dan rasa kantuk belum juga datang, entah mengapa saya ingin menulis sedikit setelah lama tidak menulis di blog, moment dan suasana yang tepat, tengah malam begini paling jernih untuk menulis, entah mengapa rasanya saya ingin menulis tentang “kematian” terdengar menyeramkan memang, tapi ini salah satu cara yang efektif untuk menghancurkan hati yang lambat laun menunjukkan indikasi “hati beku”, ada banyak yang harus saya syukuri ketika menjalani kehidupan ini, salah satunya adalah selalu diberi kesadaran jika hati mulai mengeras, harus ada yang mesti saya lakukan untuk menghindari tergelincir dan menghilang dari frequensi ilahiah.

Saya teringat akan sebuah statement, entah itu hadist atau apa, katanya begini :” jika ingin melunakkan hati yang beku maka sering seringlah mengingat kematian” jika terlalu tenggelam dengan kesibukan, ingat kematian, jika terlalu tenggelam dalam canda dan tawa. Ingat kematian, jika terlalu banyak nikmat. Ingat kematian. Jika dalam keadaan ramai. Ingat kematian, yah kematian sebagai anti-tesa dari sekian banyak fase kehidupan yang mungkin membuat kita lupa bahwa pada akhirnya kita akan dihimpit “KEMATIAN”.

 Kawan, mari kita berbicara sedikit tentang romantisme kematian yang mungkin membuat aku, kamu dan siapa saja yang berdiri dalam lorong kehidupan akan merasa terhubung dengan lorong kematian  saat ini juga, kamu siap ????

Baiklah, saya piker kamu harus siap, menulis ini saja bulu kuduk saya berdiri, mari membuat diri kita takut, mari membuat diri kita berpikir sejenak dimana mungkin selama ini kita terlalu berani untuk hidup dan jarang berpikir tentang hal ini, baiklah kita mulai sekarang.

Akan ada suatu saat kita terbaring dalam ranjang atau mungkin dmana saja, bukan tidur atau bermalas-malasan, saat itu kita sedang menunggu sesuatu, bukan istri/suami atau rasa kantuk.  Hari itu kita payah, sangaaaat payah, berbicara pun tanpa ekspresi, datar, lemah dan tanpa rasa.  Seluruh keluarga berkumpul didekat kita, mereka terlihat sedang berbicara tapi mata ini mulai kabur, telinga ini mulai tuli dan berdengung, keringat bercucuran di dahi, ujung jari mulai dingin seperti dinginnya pandangan kita pada saat itu, dimana badan yang sehat ? dimana tawa yang lepas? Dimana cinta ? dimana nafsu?, semuanya hilang meninggalkan jiwa yang payah.meskipun kita melihat ada banyak orang namun kita sendiri saat itu. yah sendiri melintasi lorong kematian, semoga ketika kita melewatinya kita masih mampu diberi kemampuan untuk mendengar lantunan ayat-ayat romantisme ilahi.

 ketika itu kematian menyapa, dimulai dari ujung kaki, naik ke betis, lutut, paha sampai perut nafas kematian mulai berhembus ke seluruh bagia tubuh, bernafas pun mulai terasa sesak, jantung mulai melemah, bibir terasa kering dan hausnya minta ampun, “LAILAHA ILLALAH” jika kita beruntung mungkin kita masih bisa mengucapkan password yang Muhammad ajarkan pada ummatnya, namun jika tidak rasa sakit dan payah yang akan membuat lidah kita kelu dan mati sampai kita meninggal tanpa password. Jangan sampai itu terjadi kawan, masuk dalam dunia lain tanpa password itu akan menjadii buronan para malaikat yang kasar tanpa ampun,, ahhhhhh. Setiap organ tubuh berpisah dengan dirinya sendiri, mengucapkan selamat tinggal, bayangkan rasa sakitnya jika telah menyatu selama seumur hidup kemudian dipisahkan dalam jurang sakaratul maut, roh disamak dari raganya.pedis dan Tragis, kita terbaring tanpa nafas, melihat diri kita sendiri ditangisi keluarga dan kerabat.

Sebentar lagi kita akan kesana.

Ingat password nya kawan..

“ LAILAHA ILLALLAH”

DO NOT SLEEP IN YOUR DREAM

Mimpi dan impian adalah barang mewah yang semua orang dapat  miliki, siapapun dan kapanpun, mimpi membuat hidup dan kehidupan mempunyai arti, warna dan rasa. Mimpi adalah tujuan, puncak dan hakikat dari setiap aksi yang kita lakukan, mimpi mengarahkan kita dalam kehidupan yang liar, mimpi mengukur ruang dan waktu sehingga  masuk kedalam ruang lingkupnya. Mimpi adalah semangat bagi mereka yang tahu bahwa hidup adalah lorong kematian yang menuju keabadian. Mimpi membuat kita keluar dari zona nyaman kehidupan, mimpi menantang kita untuk mengukur kapasitas kita, mimpi adalah roh dari kehidupan para petualang, mimpi membuat para petualang merasakan makna dari setiap jejak yang mereka buat. Mimpi adalah energy bagi jiwa yang kering.

Bermimpilah kawan, simpan mimpimu di langit yang ketujuh, simpan mimpimu disisi tuhan, bagi mimpimu untuk menciptakan mimpi-mimpi bagi orang yang ada disekitarmu, jadikan mimpimu sebagai cahaya dalam gelapnya hidup karena mimpi adalah api semangat yang menular, mimpi adalah atom yang siap untuk diledakkan dalam jiwa yang luas, mimpi adalah samudra luas yang menarik untuk diarungi, mimpi adalah kompas kehidupan dalam rimba duniawi,  mimpi adalah galaxy tempat planet-planet mengorbit dan terus bergerak, mimpi adalah arus yang keras yang membuat sungai kehidupan terasa lebih segar, mimpi adalah angin yang berisi ion-ion penyemangat hidup. Mimpi adalah harta yang dimiliki oleh orang yang tak punya apa-apa dan mimpi adalah hujan dalam gurun psir kehidupan.

JADILAH SANG PEMIMPI YANG TAK PERNAH TIDUR !!

Siluet dosa dalam cahaya iman

Memang tidak bisa disangkal bahwa tidak ada yang betul-betul konsisten di muka bumi ini, hanya tuhan yang konsisten dan hanya ia yang punya sifat konsistensi. Hanya ia yang ada dan hanya ia yang mempunyai sikap eksistensi.

Jika ruh ini di pisah menjadi dua mungkin kita akan melihat 2 sisi yang berbeda, sisi kanan (right-side) sisi kiri (left-side) keduanya mempunyai kecendrungan dan karakteristik tersendiri yang saling berlawanan, kita dibekali hati dan otak untuk membuat satu sisi lebih dominan terhadap sisi yang lain. Entah saya atau anda dominan sisi yang mana tapi hamper setiap hari ada peperangan yang terjadi dalam kedua sisi ini, peperangan yang katanya menurut rasulullah adalah peperangan yang lebih dahsyat dari perang badar atau perang uhud, kau tahu kawan apa itu ? yah itulah perang melawan hawa nafsu kita. Semua orang dibekali dengan nafsu, otak kita adalah medan perang bagi nafsu dan hati, siapa yang dapat menguasainya maka dia yang menguasai tubuh ini.

Jika nafsu yang menang maka ia dapat memanipulasi hati dan pikiran sehingga eksistensi otak dan hati menjadi tidak berarti sama sekali. Jika hati yang menang maka nafsu selalu mencari jalan untuk membuat kemenangan itu tidak berlangsung lama. Selalu ada celah yang ia gunakan untuk menghalangi kemenangan dari hati.

Kalu kita ingin berpikir lebih dalam maka mungkin bisa saya katakana bahwa iman adalah bahan bakar dari hati, hati yang kekurangan bahan bakar akan kering bahkan mati dilahap api nafsu yang menjadi-jadi, iman kita adalah sesuatu yang abstrak, software yang Cuma bisa dirasakan tanpa bisa dilihat eksistensinya, namun perbuatan kita bissa menjadi indicator dari iman yang sedang full bahan bakar atau mungkin habis bahan bakarnya, kekurangan bahan bakar inilah yang mengakibatkan hati kita mednjadi terbolak-balik anda tahu atau pernah membaca satu hadits rasul yang diriwayatkan Oleh Ahmad dan Ibnu Abu Syaibah yang kira-kira begini haditsnya

Aisyah RA berkata ““Nabi SAW sering berdoa dengan mengatakan, ‘Wahai Tuhan yang membolak-balikkan hati, teguhkanlah hatiku untuk selalu taat kepada-Mu.’ Aku pernah bertanya, ‘Ya Rasulullah, kenapa Anda sering berdoa dengan menggunakan doa seperti itu? Apakah Anda sedang marasa ketakutan?’ Beliau menjawab, ‘Tidak ada yang membuatku merasa aman, hai Aisyah. Hati seluruh hamba ini berada di antara dua jari Allah Yang Maha Memaksa. Jika mau membalikkan hati seorang hamba-Nya, Allah tinggal membalikkannya begitu saja’”.

Dalam hal ini ada sunnnatullah yang berlaku, memang pada dasarnya bahwa hati ini digerakkan oleh allah karena dialah yang menguasai hati setiap manusia, jika allah mau maka 7 milyar penduduk yang ada di bumi ini semuanya akan beriman dan mengesakan allah. Harus kita akui yang menyimpan iman dalam diri kita bukan siapa-siapa namun allah yang menentukan kadarnya. Namun tuhan akan mencurahkan bahan bakar hati jika kita telah mendapatkan ridhonya, jadi sebenarnya tugas utama kita hanya mencari ridho allah, selebihnya allah saja yang menentukan kita termasuk golongan yang kanan atau golongan yang kiri.